Sex On the Internet

Over the past ten years, the Internet has become so firmly entrenched in our lives that we can hardly imagine how we used to live without it. "We'll write off on ICQ", "throw off the soap", "I'll browse the network" - these and other expressions accurately reflect our network life.

Human nature is such that first of all, he adapts new technologies to satisfy his sexual needs. The invention of photography and video filming immediately led to the emergence of erotic and pornographic photographs and films, the telephone - to sex on the phone, vulcanization - to the production of condoms, the study of hormones - to new types of contraception.

The emergence of the WWW could not fail to reflect the basic interest of humanity. Erotic and pornographic sites, dating sites "for friendship and correspondence", webcams - there are proposals to satisfy any request for every taste, a new type of relationship has appeared - sex over the Internet.

What reasons lead people to seek virtual sexual experiences? Obviously, there are several of them. Probably the most common is dissatisfaction with one's sexual relations or increased libido (a strong sexual constitution coupled with the difficulties of its implementation in real mode). Another reason is curiosity, the search for new knowledge.

The sites offer many toys, stimulants, accessories with home delivery, here you can also learn about poses, methods, types of satisfaction, get acquainted with the Kama Sutra, tantric sex, and other manuals on sexual techniques. Oftentimes, online dating pushes people to a feeling of loneliness. You can register on the Glasgow escorts site and you will receive letters and it seems like loneliness will go away. In the waves of sex over the Internet, jealousy and the desire to take revenge on your partner can push.

There are probably many other reasons that induce people to seek sexual entertainment on the Internet. Sex over the Internet is open around the clock, you can hide behind a nickname and change your gender. It is interesting to note that according to research, men prefer to watch various pictures, while women prefer to participate in chat rooms.

As a rule, the most active users of such resources are people who do not have a wide social circle. They prefer work related not to people, but to signs and symbols. But they feel that some part of life and communication is passing by, but since it is scary to go out into the world, they prefer to do it safely.

For someone, it becomes a lifestyle, for someone a pleasant entertainment, relaxation, release from the accumulated sexual energy. For many, it is a textbook, for others, salvation from loneliness. But in the end, sex over the Internet still loves alone, love for your ideal, and not for your real partner.

Of course, there are couples who meet in real life after virtual acquaintance. I myself have friends who met the Cardiff escorts  and later got married. But this is rather a different case. It's just that before it was customary to get to know each other on the street or in the reading room, now people use the Internet for this. And from this point of view, one can only welcome this way of meeting and communicating. But there is no need to replace real sex with sex over the Internet. It's still a world of fantasies and illusions. And in the real world, there are their own, real laws of attraction of people. In life, it is very important to feel the soft or coarse hair of your partner, to smell his body, to see how he used to sleep - in a ball or stretched out to his full height, which breakfast he prefers.

It may be objected that all this can be described in words. You can describe it, but you can't smell it, taste it, touch it with your hand. Of course, with the development of technology, new technologies appear, and now there are special clothes, gloves, underwear, helmets for visualization, which help to more fully experience sexual sensations.

This is very helpful for those who need to open up, loosen up, free themselves from tightness. But it seems to me that all these adaptations do not play into the hands of those who need real human communication. This is not a problem, but a bad solution to the problem.

Of course, in the process of sex on the Internet, you can introduce yourself as anyone, come up with any life story and endow yourself with any qualities. But will this help to solve deep psychological problems, to resolve existential questions, to save from depression? It seems to me that in most cases, leaving real money will only exacerbate all these problems even more. Replacing a real partner with a virtual one may begin to take on a clinical connotation.

There is another problem with sex over the Internet. He's too accessible. And especially for children. Why hide the fact that our modern children are much better educated technically than we are. What makes me an hour (how the new program works, how to connect a mobile phone to a computer, how to download music to a flash drive), my teenage daughter decides in 10 minutes. And our children have very easy access to all sex materials.

On the one hand, it is a source of information on sexual matters for adolescents. In the virtual space, you can ask any question, find information on any exciting topic. But, on the other hand, this information is unfiltered. There is a danger that all these naked aunts and uncles will be disgusted and form the wrong attitude towards human sexuality. Their curiosity will be satisfied too early and the phenomenon of depreciation will arise.

In addition, it plays the same negative role as low-quality love films, glamorous magazines, romance novels, where love and sexual relations are described from the point of view of some ideal, which must be equal. In them, the hero and the heroine reach orgasm from the first time, they all have ideal figures, in general, everything is slicked, smoothed, and adjusted to the stereotypes of mass culture.

And those features of a teenage character, which could come to naught with age, are accentuated, acquire convex outlines. And can lead to sexual pathologies. Misconceptions about yourself, your body, about your sex life, which in turn can lead to depression, dissatisfaction, and other sexual disorders.

Going into the virtual world seems like a good way out of real-life problems. There you can safely tickle your nerves and catch up on adrenaline, there is no danger of contracting venereal or other diseases, and you can only be raped with your consent. A person does not need to think about how he looks and what he says.

Usually, speech in sex chats is very uniform and poor. By and large, sex over the Internet is not much different from the same Playboy or porn films. But it is much more accessible, almost free, and absolutely anonymous (well, except for those cases when a partner is suddenly caught)

Oddly enough, but with all the richness of human fantasies, sex sites abound in a fairly similar series of images of blondes with curvaceous clips in the spirit of German porn. The language of sentences is the same type, far from any literary.

Usually, the 12 Step program is used to treat Internet addictions, but in the modern world, it is almost impossible to resist using the Internet. So far, there are no longitudinal observations of such addicts.

Communication with a virtual partner can bring novelty, some poignancy, and piquancy to a relationship with a real partner. But here you need to be able not to play too much. Clients often complain that their partner is very interested in sex over the Internet and refuses real sex, citing various other reasons. It is hardly possible that a man who has no problems with sexuality and satisfaction of desire will sit up all night long, masturbating in front of the monitor. Or that a sexually satisfied leicester escorts will start chatting on erotic forms. This is quite acceptable as the acquisition of new experiences and sensations, but they certainly will not hang there. If a client says that his partner's dependence on Internet sex has led to the collapse of their relationship, then here this dependence has definitely become a reason or a result, but in no way the cause of their problem.

At first, sex over the Internet seems like something new and interesting. But then over time, it starts to pall. In fact, there is nothing new in it. All sites are similar to one another, the effect of novelty quickly disappears, the range of services is monotonous. There is no real human unpredictability in him. And normally, a keen interest in virtual sex gradually fades to a certain level. It is sometimes used, along with other erotic products, to revive sensations, to give a theme to fantasies.

Sex over the Internet is generally incorporeal sex. Naturally, there is masturbation, but this is sex with oneself.

Virtual sex itself cannot create psychological problems. But at receptions, people are increasingly mentioning the problems they think are caused by online sex. It is like a litmus paper that manifests the already existing latent problems associated with loneliness, inability to build real relationships, self-doubt, the ability to position oneself - i.e. all that is where you need to imagine yourself alive.

In addition to the danger of being disconnected from real life, sex over the Internet carries another danger - a criminal one. This is the spread of child pornography and pedophilia. Since the global network is poorly subject to control by law enforcement agencies, it makes possible the distribution of prohibited materials.

For people with unconventional inclinations, unusual sexual preferences, sex over the Internet can be a great helper. Such a client understands that he is not alone in his non-standard tastes and this helps him to free himself from feelings of guilt, to stop suffering from remorse that he is not like everyone else. That there are other people of the same kind and entire communities with similar preferences, you can talk to them on equal terms and stop feeling like an outcast. Awareness alone can already have a therapeutic effect and allows you to accept yourself as you are. Here, no one will catch you with a young and pretty girlfriend and tell your wife.

We must remember that the virtual space itself is impersonal and neutral. It is we people who give it meaning and endow it with various qualities.